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BOSTON (WBZ NewsRadio) — A growing number of Americans are citing feelings of loneliness, even when they're with other people, particularly people in their 40s and 50s.
A new poll from AARP entitled "Disconnected: The Escalating Challenge of Loneliness Among Adults 45-Plus" shows four in 10 adults over the age 45 feel lonely, with men feeling more isolated than women.
It's part of a phenomenon called the U-shaped happiness curve, with people happiest when they're young and as they age, with major life transitions like retirement, loss of loved ones and children moving away can create triggers for isolation and loneliness.
"You might want to speak to some of your family members and friends, but they might be busy just because of life. So that can cause some loneliness. Also because people work a lot," one person said.
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Those surveyed were asked about their involvement in the community and organizations as well as the size of their social circles. While some people go to great lengths to try and solve the issue, one person said he's not sure how effective their methods can be.
"They hate being alone. They'll go to the bar. They'll go anywhere trying to find companionship," another person said.
The interest group conducted the same survey in 2010 and 2018. The rates of loneliness have increased from 35% to 40% since the last poll.
AARP suggests these small steps to reconnect:
- Reach out to a friend
- Engage in community activities
- Start a conversation to make a meaningful difference
WBZ NewsRadio’s Chris Fama (CFamaWBZ) reports.